frame left frame top frame right
Wedding Favors header image
frame bottom
 
MENU
ARTICLES
BOOKS
Wedding Favors: Fabulous Favors for the Perfect Wedding Day
Wedding Favors: Fabulous Favors for the Perfect Wedding Day
by Antonia Swinson
Our Price: $9.95
Used from: $5.60

Creating Your Perfect Wedding: Stylish Ideas And Step-by-step Projects for a Beautiful Wedding
Creating Your Perfect Wedding: Stylish Ideas And Step-by-step Projects for a Beautiful Wedding
by Lucinda Ganderton
Our Price: $13.56
Used from: $4.72

The Artful Bride: Wedding Favors and Decorations: A Stylish Bride's Guide to Simple, Handmade Wedding Crafts
The Artful Bride: Wedding Favors and Decorations: A Stylish Bride's Guide to Simple, Handmade Wedding Crafts
by April L. Paffrath Paula Grasdal Livia McRee
Our Price: $11.04
Used from: $5.25

Favorable Occasions: Favors for Parties, Weddings, and Holidays
Favorable Occasions: Favors for Parties, Weddings, and Holidays
by Beverly Clark
Used from: $0.83

Fabulous Favors: Handmade Favors for Weddings, Parties and Holidays
Fabulous Favors: Handmade Favors for Weddings, Parties and Holidays
by Beverly Clark
Used from: $3.04

Fun Ideas For Unity Candles

If you are planning a wedding and plan to have a unity candle as part of the ceremony, you might want to think outside the box.

Traditionally, the unity candle involves three candles. The bride has one, the groom the other, and their two lighted candles light the third candle.

 
This is done to represent the coming together of the two people to make one unit. In some alternate methods, family members are invited to participate in the unity candle lighting, often the mothers of the bride and groom, or other close members of the family. Each family then lights a candle, and together they light the unity candle to symbolize of the coming together of the families.

Now, there are a few twists you can add to this fairly conventional aspect of a wedding ceremony. You can provide each guest with an unlit candle when they arrive at the ceremony. After the couple lights the unity candle, they can ask the guests to move to the front of the church (or wherever the ceremony is being held) and light their candles with the lighted unity candle. This can take a bit of time and might be best with a smaller guest list. But it is a meaningful way to not only get your guests involved in the ceremony itself, but also symbolize the union of family and friends with the marriage.

If there is a large guest list and it would be a prohibitive waste of time to do a candle lighting involving everyone at the ceremony, some brides and grooms like to bring the unity candle to the reception. Light the candle again and provide each guest with a small votive candle (the candle holder will be on the tables at individual table settings). As guests come into the reception area or hall, they can light their votive and take it to their table to place into the votive holder. This small votive candle can double as a wedding favor, particularly if you decorate or enhance a plain votive candleholder in some way to coordinate with your wedding.

Of course, you can forget having a unity candle at the ceremony altogether. Many brides these days are trying to reduce the length of the ceremony and spend more time planning the reception. In that light, some choose to do away with a unity candle altogether. You can certainly do this, or you can cut it out of the ceremony and make it part of the reception.

To do this, you can use the votive candle option suggested above, or you can simply incorporate the unity candle lighting into the reception activities themselves. For example, you might choose a quiet moment in the reception to have a lighting of the unity candle. It might be during a short prayer prior to the serving of the meal, or right before the cake is cut. In this case, the unity candle can then be used as decoration on the cake table. As the bride and groom cut the cake and pieces are served to guests, the candle can also serve as a reminder of the couple's new bond and that the bond is shared with all the guests as well.

Although having a unity candle at the wedding or reception isn't necessary, it is certainly an option that many brides and grooms opt to include. But it's important to remember that as with so much surrounding wedding planning there are ways to make it unique and interesting and special to the couple getting married.

Search

More Articles
PRODUCTS
SPONSORED LINKS
 
 
Champagne Wedding Favors News

Weddings Favors Info - Sponsored Link

Ad - Get Info On Weddings Favors from 14 search engines in 1.

Read more...


Sean Bertrand and Allison DeValcourt

to Sean Jacob Bertrand, son of Mr. and Mrs. Lenard Bertrand, also of Opelousas. The couple will exchange wedding vows on February 7, 2009 at Our Lady of Mercy Catholic Church in Opelousas. Miss DeValcourt is the granddaughter of Ms. Gail M. DeValcourt of

Read more...


Kathryn Hernandez and Brett Denais

High School and graduated from LSU at Eunice. He is employed with the Lafayette Fire Department. After the wedding, the couple will reside in Lafayette, La

Read more...


Mrs. Christopher Arceneaux

is a graduate of Lafayette High School. Escorted by her father, the bride wore a strapless ivory and champagne gown designed by Casablanca with beadwork just at the empire waist. A multi-pleated bodice and sweetheart neckline are contrasted by an A-line

Read more...


Mrs. Alex Blake Duplechin

Meghan Ashly Pritchett and Alex Blake Duplechin exchanged wedding vows at 7:00 p.m. on December 27th, 2008 at St. Stephen Catholic Church in New Orleans. Father John Arnone officiated the ceremony. The bride is the daughter of

Read more...


 
 
Copyright 2009. All rights reserved.
bottom bar